& the cycle continues, unbroken
2009-06-29, 9:26 a.m.

So, the drama continues from one sister, to the next. Or so it seems that way to me.
Maybe I'm also being insensitive...?

2 weeks ago, my sister April, who came to Ben's funeral told me that she wanted to come back to Missouri, and go down to Atlanta with me. Being overwhelmed with so much, as the Administrator, she offered to rent a vehicle, pay for the gas, plus pay for any hotel/motel costs along with offering to ask her would-be boyfriend to come with. She said, "Us girls.. we can use a man to help out with the heavy items."
I merely shook my head and told her I didn't mind a little help, if she wanted to ask him.

So, in the 2 weeks that she has been back in her home town, she has had 4 dates, with 4 different men, hooking up with all of them to be dumped by all of them. All, but one - Santiago.

Apparently, Sanitago is 'the man I want to spend my life with'. (Not on my life, sister)

The plan was that we were all going to leave the 5th - none of us were supposed to be bringing children along. She knew that - I'm not even bringing mine with us. I'm taking them to Illinois for the 2 weeks that I will be needed to stay in Georgia, to clear out Mom's things.
You have to take into account the stench that will be associated with everything else.. the power (and water) has been off for 6 months!
Children do not need to be around that kind of overwhelming environment.

Naturally, I was pissed when she told me about his children, and I told her that they absolutely could not come. I didn't care if she brought them to Six Flags, but they would have to go back to Inidiana to take them home.
She said, "Well, Santiago can go somewhere in Atlanta with his children, and do something with them."

(My sister's an idiot- just like the other one)

Why in the hell would she bring someone to a place they have never been, to go off in search of something to do, having never been there before, in the first place - to try and find his way back. That is so completely ignorant.

She said, "He's a good driver. He will find his way back, to Mom's."

(Mom lived out in the middle of BFE, you dumb ass. You knew that.
Stupid bitch!
Oh my god, you're stupid)

So, after more explaining, she finally agreed that they didn't need to be there. And, so, I thought things were fine.
Until all the damn drama began...

She texted me at 5 a.m. saying, "It looks like we will have to wait until the 8th. Our apartment doesn't come open until the 3rd, and then it will take us 2-3 days to get moved in."

I simply told her that that I couldn't wait that long, that I have a set time frame to be in Georgia and that I couldn't deviate from it.

Her idiot ass said, "Well. I am sorry. But, I have a life too."

I told her I wasn't implying anything.. and let it be.

I didn't imply anything about her or his life, or anything else. Just that I couldn't wait until the 8th to leave. I have 2 weeks, and if I didn't go with that, then I wouldn't be able to make the trip. Aside from the fact, I have to meet with the attorneys.

So, then yesterday afternoon, I sent a text message to her cell asking her if she knew if she was 'for sure' about coming along to Georgia.
She texted me back saying, "I am with Santiago, and he says it is rude of me to talk to you while we are spending time together."
Well, fuck you. How was I supposed to know you were with him. And you're supposed to be living together?!

You're just like Stefanie!

I replied to her, "When you have time, call me. I sure don't want your boyfriend thinking I'm rude. I didn't know you were with him, in the first place."
Later, she texted me, "I don't like your attitude. First off I am with his entire family. And I can't guarantee that I can make it. Things have come up unexpectedly. The apartment is going to run 2000 dollars and that does not leave much to everything else. I have bills to pay here."

2 hours later, I said, "I don't (really) think you are coming down, which is just as well if you're not going to fucking talk to me. I'm your sister for Christs sake! It's not like I'm another man you are texting. If this is how it's going to be when you're living together, then I guess I will never get to talk to you. You just let me know what you're doing. Okay?
Today."
No man (or woman) would ever tell me what I can and cannot do.

She texted me back saying, "Drop the crap. And shut the hell up because my friends mean the world to me. And I didn't like the fact that you made it like the only reason you wanted me to bring him is to use him. I wanted them to come spend time together with us."

Then I called her phone and the bitch hung up on me. So I called again and left her a nasty message. I hate it when people do that to me. It is the quickest and easiest way to piss me off.
I believe that I called her an insensitive, selfish, whoring, bitch. I know it was pretty equivilant, anyway.
She sent me a message back about 4 hours later that said, "If you have no more respect for me than to call me names and to curse me out then I will be the first to close the door to his relationship."

I sent her a reply saying, "Go on ahead. It's not as if you've been in my life for the last 20 fucking years anyway. I don't need you or Stefanie, if you both are going to be ignorant."

She didnt say anything else until this morning at 9 a.m. ... "I said that you made the comment that he could do the heavy lifting. Then you said how he could help us if he brought his children. I never once recall saying he could or would do anything when I talked about them coming with me to Six Flags."

I replied, "I swear you have selective amnesia. I NEVER said anything about his children being brought along and you fucking know it. YOU did all of that nonsense all by yourself. YOU will NOT put this shit on me. If you can't be any more mature than this, I'd be happier if you just kept your ass at home."

And I haven't heard another word from her. Which is just fine with me. But, then again, she's with Santiago..
Her and Stefanie are so simliar in traits, I can't understand why they hate each other.
No one would ever tell me that I cannot talk to my family, especially when it's about my mother. They can go get fucked sideways..
which is exactly how I feel about my sisters, right now.
*sigh*
Slutbags.

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